Skooc - Bullying Children
Introduction
Bullying is when someone deliberately and repeatedly upsets, frightens, threatens or hurts someone else or their property, reputation or friendships.
Bullying happens among children in school and can negatively impact their mental health and social skills. Bullying may involve
teasing, saying mean things or calling someone names
deliberately ignoring someone or leaving them out of games or activities, and/or encouraging others to do this
playing nasty jokes or spreading nasty stories
pushing, tripping or hitting someone, or taking or damaging their things
You can be rest assured that at Skooc, you and your family are in good hands.
Symptoms
Here are some warning signs to look out for if you suspect that your child is a victim of bullying.
Is reluctant to go to school or outright refuses to go
Frequently reports headaches, stomach aches or feeling sick, but there appears to be no underlying medical reason.
Has trouble sleeping and talks about the occurrence of frequent nightmares.
Shows little interest in hanging out with friends and tends to avoid social situations.
Comes home with unexplained injuries.
Appears to have a low self-esteem
Prone to shutting themselves in their rooms and sudden irritability
Abnormal eating patterns, where the child sometimes eats less, skips meals, or binge eats.
Sudden decline in grades, lack of interest in school
If you notice recurring instances of a few of these symptoms in your child, we at Skooc recommend a formal evaluation.
Diagnosis
At Skooc, we help you better understand what your child is going through. Be aware that sometimes a child may not show any sign that they are being bullied. To stay tuned in to what is going with your child in school, talk to them regularly. Unlike the occasional argument, shouting match or scuffle, bullying happens repeatedly; it is not an isolated event. It can be physical (shoving, punching, kicking) or verbal (name-calling, gossiping, spreading rumours), and it can also happen through social media such as Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.
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Next Steps and Intervention
Our team of professional psychologists at Skooc can help you and your child by providing the necessary interventions. Knowing that your child is struggling with her thoughts and feelings is an upsetting experience for any parent.
Treatment related to depression and anxiety
This involves tailoring therapy plans according to your child’s age, specific symptoms, family and school situation and overall medical history. This method begins by
Devising a plan to stop the abuse.
Helping your child rebuild their self-esteem.
Teaching them new, constructive thought patterns to help them succeed in the present and plan for the future.
Psychotherapy
Using psychotherapy (such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) or a combination of medication and therapy can help your child feel and function better.
Psychotherapy is designed to help your child identify, express and manage her feelings about being bullied.
It will also teach her important new skills for overcoming those feelings, rebuilding her self-esteem and feeling optimistic and confident about the future.
Developmental Assesments, Therapy and Counselling Sessions at Narayana Clinic, Sarjapura Road, Bengaluru.
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What People are Saying about Skooc
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Bala Shivkumar (Bangalore)
When we came to Skooc we had a 17 year old who was so depressed that he had lost 15 kilos, was not eating, not sleeping and did not talk to us. His condition was so bad that even medicines were not helping. When we started therapy at Skooc, we were so happy that it was on video because he would not even step out of his room. It was a slow process, but our child has improved. Rachit is now recovering under the guidance of Ms. Rowena and we are very much relieved and happy. Thank you to Skooc and your excellent counsellors.
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Shweta Khosla (Pune)
Siya was diagnosed with ADHD when she was only 8. At 14 we saw so many problems coming up that we felt she can never even finish school. But working with Sarah we saw how to manage the disorder and make her do better at her social life, sports and studies. For a child who could not at all focus, she is now able to sit for 30-35 minutes and able to plan and do her work.
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Ritu Grewal
Hi Devi, Thank you very much for helping Kiara with her depression. We were all so upset ad scared about what she is going through and what had happened to our usually happy 15 year old. Ankita is a wonderful therapist and she has made a big difference in her life. I will always be grateful for your help.
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R. Saravan (coimbatore)
My son Akshat is 13 and stopped going to school. Everyday when we would wake he will start to refuse and in one hour there was screaming, crying and drama. My wife and I were so tired and exhausted. School was also getting very tough on us. When we came to Skooc, we were desperate and we got very good counselling for my son and for us. We came to understand how he was bullied and that has caused trauma. We never thought how severe it is for him. Miss Rowena helped us to also manage his fear very well. He is now able to go back and teachers are also supporting him
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Srinivas Mohan (Bangalore)
I was very unsure about making my teenager son do online therapy sessions. I thought online will not be so effective. But I am so glad I tried it. I can see great improvement in his behaviour. I also understand him better now. His anxiety and anger issues are under control now. Thanks to our counsellor Shreya.
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Josephine (Bangalore)
My daughter Ria was teased very badly in school for being fat and would be very embarrassed about even going out. When we went to the doctor we were shocked to find out that she was very overweight and had high cholesterol. We joined Skooc and both she and I have dropped our extra weight and even after finishing the full course are able to stick with the habits we learnt at Skooc. We are both very happy with our new healthy bodies.
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Lavanya Sethi (Gurugram)
My child who is 5 was behaving very badly and was beating me. She was disobedient and would show anger. When I called to Skooc, I was very sad and did not know what to do. With play therapy for my daughter and with parenting therapy for me, in 2 months she was behaving like other children in her age. I was very happy and she was also not getting angry at me. Thank you to our counsellor Shilpi.
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Sulakshana Pai (Pune)
My 16 year old struggled with anxiety and was in a bad shape. The counselling at Skooc has helped with his difficulty in studies and exams. The counsellors are really good
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Sheela Modi (Delhi NCR)
My son has lost 15 kgs and I lost 10 kgs through the Skooc program. It was easily paced and did not ever restrict my child from eating anything that was essential. He had a balanced meal everyday and he and his counsellor agreed on a schedule that was easy for me to cook too. From a child who watched TV all the time and ate junk food, Ayaan is now an active child and a healthy eater who is very happy and confident with how he looks.
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Irfan Salim (Mumbai)
We really struggled with our 10 year old daughter’s ADHD. We have consulted more than 6 counsellors and saw no effect. At Skooc Dr.Jasmin helped us very much by taking smaller sessions to help Sanaa focus more. And in just 2 months we saw so much better results. She is better in her daily habits and also in her studies very satisfied with the treatment for my hyperactive child and parent counselling.
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Reema Gupta
My daughter lost 11 kgs across the Skooc program which was more than 10% of her body weight and has stayed in the healthy range of BMI since then. She now makes the right decisions regarding her foods and is aware of the effect of what she eats and her exercise on her weight.
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Krishnaa Reddy (Hyderabad)
Skooc has helped my daughter get into a great shape physically and mentally. She has lost weight and is no longer in the risk zone for type II diabetes. The program worked with my daughter and me to help us understand how to correct what we were doing. Very importantly, my daughter and I no longer fight over what she
eats and what she does not. If you are looking for a weight loss coaching for your kids then Skooc is the right choice.
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Sheela Modi
My son has lost 15 kgs and I lost 10 kgs through the Skooc program. It was easily paced and did not ever restrict my child from eating anything that was essential. He had a balanced meal everyday and he and his counsellor agreed on a schedule that was easy for me to cook too. From a child who watched TV all the time and ate junk food, Ayaan is now an active child and a healthy eater who is very happy and confident with how he looks.
eats and what she does not. If you are looking for a weight loss coaching for your kids then Skooc is the right choice.
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Priya Somnath (Philadelphia)
Manish was severely obese with a risk of contracting chronic conditions. After joining the Skooc program, he has lost over 15 Kgs and has started to exercises everyday for 45 minutes. He suffered from pain in the knees which has gone now and he is able to run and play with his friends. It has been 1 year since he started to lose weight and he is still in the process successfully losing wight and getting healthy.
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Josephine (Philadelphia)
Ria was teased very badly in school for being fat and would be very embarrassed about even going out. When we went to the doctor we were shocked to find out that she was very overweight and had high cholesterol. We joined Skooc and both she and I have dropped our extra weight and even after finishing the full course are able to stick with the habits we learnt at Skooc. We are both very happy with our new healthy bodies.
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Maya Singh (Philadelphia)
My son suffered from constant digestive issues and obesity. He found it very difficult to run and play due to his thighs being very fat and also he suffered from pains in his knees, hips. He also had trouble breathing after even walking a small distance. We joined Skooc because we had tried to put Jay on a diet before and it had not worked. At Skooc, he dropped 24Kgs and is now a teenager who was healthily and works out everyday. I personally dropped 16Kgs and now we are both very close to entering our ideal weight zone
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Savitha Shetty (Mumbai)
Devi, I want to thank you so much for helping Sharan. When we came to you he was doing so badly in his studies and we used to get complaints all the time from school. Through Peak Performance, he has changed the way he studies and the parenting sessions helped us also so much in managing our frustration. I want to
than Ankita also for helping him score such good marks
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Sree Viswa (Mumbai)
My 17 year old was addicted to his mobile phone and games. His counselling with Skooc was different because it was online and I had wanted offline. But when I saw how good it was going through video counselling, I understood that the quality of the counselling matters not if it is online or offline. Now we are all having healthy technology habits and my son also is very moderated in his usage.
than Ankita also for helping him score such good marks
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Lincon John (Bangalore)
Hi, I want to express my gratitude to the Skooc team and Rowena for helping my daughter and us. When a child who wants to end her life it is horrible for her, everyone around her and us. I thank your team who worked with us as a family to resolve this issue and make her and us better and happier.
than Ankita also for helping him score such good marks
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Harsh Chauhan (Delhi NCR)
Thank you madam for helping my son. He was too depressed after a relationship broke up and was so lonely and did not even want to live. Miss. Sarah was very understanding to help me and my wife with our frustration and disappointment and with our son. She never made him feel not guilty and helped his confidence and self-esteem and motivated him for living. We will always bless you.
than Ankita also for helping him score such good marks
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Ranjana Dey (Delhi NCR)
Hi Devi, we finished counselling for Dharshika today. Thank you for all your help and for giving us such a good counsellor. She is her old happy, funny, loving girl again.
than Ankita also for helping him score such good marks
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Niharika Chawla (UK)
Hi Devi, Just to let you know today was the last day of our 12 week PCIT. There has been a huge change in Shrey’s behaviour and our frustration levels also. When you explained the program to us first I just went with you because I was so desperate. But The program is so well planned and conducted that we could see changes in our behaviour and my son’s. Now we have a child who is not throwing tantrums and being difficult in public. He is so much better at school and we are also much more confident about managing him.
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Preeti Krishnamurthy (Chennai)
Thank you for the counselling and guidance for helping Aanya back to school. As you know COVID made it so difficult for small children especially and getting my 6 year old daughter back to school was really becoming very tough. Thanks to your program on PCIT, we were able to overcome this fear in her and get her back. Thanks also for helping me as a parent manage my emotions and feelings.
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Sachin Gupta (Delhi)
Good evening. Pooja and I want to thank you a lot for all your help with Viaan’s social difficulty in school. We never realised how much anxiety a 9 year old could be experiencing and how it was showing up. Thank you for helping us get back our calm and kind child and also helping us understand these problems in such great detail.
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